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Saturday 15 June 2013

Difference between More & Less

COMPARISON OF MORE & LESS
We are big men, but small character.
We build more computers, but communicate less.
We buy more, but enjoy less.
We drink too much, smoke too much and stay up too late.
We drive too fast, get too angry and get up too tired.
We eat more foods, but less digest.
We have bigger houses, but smaller families.
We have done larger things, but less better things.
We have more conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees, but less sense.
We have more experts, yet more problems.
We have more knowledge, but less judgment.
We have more medicine, but less wellness.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We make more relations, but hold less.
We plan more, but accomplish less.
We spend more, but have less.
We spend too recklessly and laugh too little.
We talk too much, hate too often and love too seldom.
We teach more, but learn less.
We think more, but output less.
We want more profits, but sell less.
We watch TV too much, read too little and pray too seldom.
We write more, but learn less.
Time is more precious instead we are wasting more time, but gain less.

ZODIAC and Signs - Guess Yourself

ZODIAC WITH MONTH & SEASON


Zodiac             Rashi              Old Gregorian        New Gregorian       Season       
                  
1-Aries             Mesha              Mar 21-Apr 20       Apr 18 – May 13      Summer

2-Taurus          Vrushabha       Apr 21-May 21        May 13 – Jun 21

3-Gemini          Mithuna           May 22-Jun 21         Jun 21 – Jul 20          Rainy  

4-Cancer          Karka              Jun 22-Jul 22           Jul 20 – Aug 10

5-Leo               Simha              Jul 23-Aug 22          Aug 10 – Sep 16       Autumn

6-Virgo            Kanya              Aug 23-Sep 21        Sep 16 – Oct 30

7-Libra             Tula                 Sep 22-Oct 22        Oct 30 – Nov 23       Dew

8-Scorpio         Vrushchika      Oct 23-Nov 21        Nov 23 – Nov 29

9-Sagittarius     Dhanu             Nov 22-Dec 21        Dec 17 – Jan 20        Winter

10-Capricorn   Makara            Dec 22-Jan 20         Jan 20 – Feb 16

11-Aquarius     Kumbha          Jan 21-Feb 19          Feb 16 – Mar 11      Spring


12-Pisces         Meena             Feb 20-Mar 20        Mar 11 – Apr 18


TWELVE ZODIACS                                                                                        
ARIES 

TAURUS

GEMINI

CANCER

LEO

VIRGO

LIBRA

SCORPIO

SAGITTARIUS

CAPRICORN

AQUARIUS

PISCES

WIFE

To
My Dear Wife….

Tum bhi Mere Apne ho ya sirf Main hi Tumhara hun...? 
Mujh Ko Tanha Chhord Kar Khushi Milti Hai Tumhe.... 

Khuda Kare Tum Yuhi Khush Raho Or Main Yuhi Tanha... 

Log….

Yaad Karte Hai Kasme Khate Hain... 

Fir Bhi Saath Chhord Jate Hain... 

Humein To Phool Todne Main Takleef Hoti Hai... 
Na Jaane Log Dil Kaise Tod Jate Hain....!!
Magar, Na Mein Kabhi Phool Toda Na Tum Dil…!!!

My Past

I want to go back to my past…


When safety means being in my Mom's arms, 

When happiness means toffees & biscuits, 


When victory means finishing my plate 1st, 

When the highest place on earth means my Dad's shoulders,
And touching the roof in his strong arms means high above the sky,

When the only things broken were my toys, 

When goodbyes only meant till tomorrow, 

When I loved everybody & everyone loved me, 


I wish I could go back to that time…but….???


Disdvantages of being a woman

Coming Soon....

Disadvantages of Being a Man

 Man is blissful human being

1.      You work your entire life making money just to get a wife. 

2.      You'll need a woman to confirm whether you get married or not, after buying a ring.

3.      You spend millions to make your wedding a success, and your wife takes the glory. 

4.      You work extra hours out of your ability after marriage.

5.      You may not think about a child but it’s just like womanish.

6.      You must be a selfish to keep happy to your wife.

7.      You may miss your old father and mother or past.

8.      You give money for housekeeping and you get to eat only dinner. 

9.      You shared everything with your family even a toast in coffee bar.

10.  You neither do anything without concern nor alone.

11.  You work hard to make properties just to make a will for your wife and children. 

12.  You have to act tough no matter your fears.

13.  You never reach in time at your home instead of your wife’s urge.

14.  You couldn't guide children because you leave & reach home when they were in bed.

15.  You might give more time to your boss than your child and wife.

16.  You have to expense more and more to maintain your happy life.

17.  You would be in restaurant with your wife but never before alone.

18.  You need to mend your puncture but never show to other.

19.  You have to fulfill needs of your wife & child but never yours.

20.  You spend your hard earned money to take your children to school.

21.  You must neglect your personal life and when they grow up they celebrate Mothers' day.

22.  Thanks to all Father who dedicate their whole life for a Mother…!


After all a Man is blissful human being because he is ready to welcome burden of a woman and embrace all menace of a woman.

3 Secretes

Three Secretes of life

3 things are common to Indian           -           Cast, Creed, and Religion

3 things come once in life                   -           Mother, Father, and Sex

3 things never forget                           -           Loan of God, Parents and Teacher

3 things never get back                       -           Sentence, Arrow, and Life

3 things not to forget                          -           Duty, Deases, Due

3 things not wait for other                  -           Time, Death, and Costumer

3 things should be control                   -           Brain, Indriya, and Word

3 things should be control                   -           Tongue, Anger, and Duty

3 things should be hate                       -           Drinking, Gambling, and Smoking

3 things should be inside                    -           Wife, Food, Wealth

3 things should get respect                 -           Old, Religion, and Law

7 Secretes

Seven Secrets of Success

I found inside my room…

1. Roof said                -           Aim High

2. Window said           -           See the world

3. Mirror said              -           Reflect before you act

4. Fan said                   -           Be cool

5. Clock said               -           Every minute is precious

6. Calendar said          -           You should up-to-date

7. Door said                -           Push hard to achieve your goals/aims.


Aim High, See the world, Reflect before you act, Be cool, Every minute is precious, You should up-to-date, Push hard to achieve your goals/aims.

 “Good Bye”


Letter of Fact

Letter of Despite
(this letter by someone to her beloved one and she is no more now)

I don't know how to say this to you but I might as well now as I have nothing to lose. I've already lost everything. If you're reading this I might have already left or about to leave. I am broken inside. 

'You may not have known this but you affected me deeply to a point where I lost myself in loving you. Yet you tortured me every day. These days I see no light I wake up not wanting to wake up. 

'There was a time I saw my life with you, a future with you. But you shattered my dreams. I feel dead inside. I've never given so much of myself to someone or cared so much. 

'You returned my love with cheating and lies. It didn't matter how many gifts I gave you or how beautiful I looked for you. I was scared of getting pregnant but I gave myself completely.'

The pain you have caused me everyday has destroyed every bit of me, destroyed my soul. I can't eat or sleep or think or function. I am running away from everything. 

'The career is not even worth it anymore. When I first met you I was driven, ambitious and disciplined. Then I fell for you, a love I thought would bring out the best in me. 

'I don't know why destiny brought us together. After all the pain, the rape, the abuse, the torture I have seen previously I didn't deserve this. 

'I didn't see any love or commitment from you. I just became increasingly scared that you would hurt me mentally or physically. Your life was about partying and women. Mine was you and my work. If I stay here I will crave you and miss you. So I am kissing...

...My 10-year career and dreams goodbye. I never told you but I received a message about you. About you are cheating on me. 

'I chose to ignore it, decided to trust you. You embarrassed me. I never went out; I never went with anyone else. I am a loyal person. I never met anyone with Karthik, I just wanted you to feel how you make me feel constantly. 

'No other woman will give you as much as I did or love you as much as I did. I can write that in my blood. Things were looking up for me here, but is it worth it when you constantly feel the pain of heartbreak when the person you love wants to abuse you or threatens or hit you or cheats on you telling other girls they are beautiful or throws you out of their house when you have...

'...nowhere to go and you've come to them out of love or when they lie to your face or they make you chase after them in their car. Or disrespects their family. 

'You never even met my sister. I bought your sister presents. You tore my soul. I have no reason to breathe anymore. All I wanted was love. I did everything for you. I was working for us. But you were never my partner. 

'My future is destroyed, my happiness snatched away from me. I always wished the best for you, was ready to invest what little money I had in your betterment. You never appreciated my love, Kicked me in the face. 

'I have no confidence or self-esteem left, whatever talent whatever ambition you took it all away. You destroyed my life.'
'It hurt me so much that I waited for you for 10 days and you didn't bother buying me something. The Goa trip was my birthday present but even after you cheated I still spent on you. 

'I aborted our baby when it hurt me deeply. You destroyed my Christmas and my birthday dinner when I came back. When I tried my hardest to make your birthday special. You chose to be away from me on Valentine’s Day. 

'You promised me once we made it to one year we would get engaged. All you want in life is partying, your women and your selfish motives. 

'All I wanted was you and my happiness; you took both away from me. I spent money on you selflessly.'

'...you would throw in my face. When I would cry for you. I have nothing left in this world to live for after this. I wish you had loved me like I loved you. 

'I dreamt of our future. I dreamt of our success. I leave this place with nothing but broken dreams and empty promises. All I want now is to go to sleep and never wake up again. I am nothing. I had everything. 

'I felt so alone even while with you. You made me feel alone and vulnerable. I am so much more than this.'

Message for all

A wonderful Message

A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete.
A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Give time to love, give time to speak, and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Try to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.
These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships.
Time is more precious than everything around us instead we are wasting more time to think about time.
To hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not back again.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
We conquered outer space but not inner space.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We've added years to life not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.
We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.
We've learned to rush, but not to wait.


Friday 7 June 2013

NAVARATRI

  The Nine Forms of Maa Durga




During the festival of Navratri, Goddess Durga Devi Mata is worshipped in different nine avatars from day one to nine as given below -

1.      First day of Navratri – Kalasha Sthapana/ Ghata Sthapana – Shailaputri Puja
2.      Second day of Navratri – Preeti Dwitiya – Brahmacharini Puja
3.      Third day of Navratri – Chandrakanta Puja/ Chandraghanta Puja
4.      Fourth day of Navratri – Kushmanda Puja
5.      Fifth day of Navratri – Lalita Panchami – Skandamata Puja
6.      Sixth day of Navratri – Maha Shashti/ Durga Shasthi – Katyani Puja
7.      Seventh day of Navratri – Durga Saptami/ Maha Saptami – Kaalratri Puja
8.      Eighth day of Navratri – Durgashtami/ Maha Ashtami – Maha Gauri Puja
9.      Ninth day of Navratri – Durga Navami/ Maha Navami – Siddhidatri Puja
10.  Tenth day of Navratri – Vijaya Dashami/ Dushera – Aparajitha Puja/ Shami Puja

Maa Shailaputri – First Avatar of Durga: She is the daughter of Parvata Raj (Mountain King) Himalaya. In her previous birth, she was “Sati Bhavani Mata” the daughter of King Daksha. She is also known as Parvati who got married with Lord Shiva. Mata Shailaputri holds a Trishul in her right hand and a Lotus in her left hand. She rides on bull. She has gratifying smile and blissful looks.

Mata Shaiaputri is the first among nine avatars of Durga and worshiped on the first day of Navratri.


Maa Brahmacharini – Second Avatar of Durga: The word ‘Brahmacharini’ comes from Sanskriti word ‘Brahma – Tapa and Charini – Performer’ means the goddess who performed penance (Tapa). She is also known as ‘Uma’ and ‘Tapacharini’ and provides knowledge & wisdom to her devotees. She holds Japa mala in her right hand and Kamandal in left hand. Mata personifies love and loyalty.

Mata Brahmacharini is the second among nine avatars of Durga and she is worshiped on second day of Navratri.


Maa Chandraghanta – Third Avatar of Durga: The word “Chandra” and “Ghanta” meaning supreme bliss and knowledge, showering peace and serenity like cool breeze in a moonlit. Maa is astride a tiger, displays a golden hue to her skin; possess ten hands and three eyes. Eight of Her hands display weapons while the remaining two are in the pose (mudras) of gestures of boon giving and stopping harm. She is very bright and charming.

Mata Chandraghanta is the third among nine avatars of Durga and she is worshiped on third day of Navratri.


Maa Kushmanda – Fourth Avatar of Durga: She likes offerings of ‘Kumhde’; hence her name ‘Kushmanda’ has become popular. She holds several types of weapons in six hands and a Rosary & a Lotus in remaining two hands out of HER eight hands. She rides on Lion. Mata Kushmanda controls whole Solar system. She shines brightly with a laughing face in all ten directions as the Sun.

Mata Kushmanda is the fourth among nine avatars of Durga and she is worshiped on fourth day of Navratri.


Maa SkandmataFifth Avatar of Durga: As the name described that, SHE had a son “Skandaa” and holds him on her lap. She has three eyes and four hands; two hands hold lotuses while the other two hands respectively display defending and granting gestures. She rides on Lion. Mata is considered as a deity of fire.
It’s said, by the mercy of Skandmata, even the idiot becomes an ocean of knowledge. The great and legendary Sanskrit Scholar Kalidas created his two masterpieces works “Raghuvansh Maha Kavya” and “Meghdoot” by the grace of Skandmata.

Skandmata is the fifth among nine avatars of Durga and is worshiped on fifth day of Navratri.


Maa KatyayaniSixth Avatar of Durga: Rishi Katyayan observed a penance to get Jaganmata as his daughter. Mata Katyayani blessed him and took birth as his daughter on the bank of river Jamuna for getting Lord Krishna as a husband. She is considered as prime deity of Vraj mandal. Ma Katyayani has three eyes and four hands. . One left hand holds a sword and in the other hand a lotus. Her Right hand always in blessing gesture. She rides on Lion. She is personifies as Devi of boon.

Mata Katyayani is worshipped on the Sixth Day of Navratri.


Maa Kaalaratri – Seventh Avatar of Durga: She is dark and black like night; hence she is called as ‘Kalratri’. She is also known as the destroyer of darkness and ignorance. Her hairs are unlocked and have three eyes and four hands. The two right hands are in the mudras of “giving” and “protecting”. Mata Kaalratri holds a sharp Sword in her left hand and saves her devotees with her lower hand. Her vahana is a faithful donkey. She spills out fire from her nostrils.  As she blesses her devotees with prosperity, she is also called as ‘Shubhamkari’.

Mata Kalaratri is worshipped on the Seventh Day of Navratri.



Maa Maha GowriEighth Avatar of Durga: She looks as white as moon and jasmine. She has three Eyes and four hands and SHE is often dressed in a white or green sari. Her above left hand is in fearless pose and lower left hand has a tambourine.  She holds ‘Trishul’ in her upper right hand and lower right hand is in blessing mudra. SHE is often depicted riding a bull. Peace and compassion radiate from HER being. 


Mata Maha Gowri is worshipped on the Eight Day of Navratri.



Maa Siddhidatri – Ninth Avatar of Durga: Maha Shakti gives all the eight powers to maa (Asta-Siddhi) – Anima, Mahima, Garima, Laghima, Prapti, Prakamya, Iishitva and Vashitva to save the Earth from demon Mahishasura. She drives on Lion. But some sources are says she is seated on Lotus. Maa Siddhidatri is worshipped by all Gods, Rishis, Muniswaras, Siddha Yogi and all common devotees who want to attain the religious asset.

According to ‘Devi Puran’, the supreme God – Shiva got all these Siddhis by worshipping the supreme Goddess Maha Shakti. With her gratitude his half body has become of Goddess; hence Lord Shiva is also known as ‘Ardhanarishwar’ has become famous.        

Mata Siddhidatri is worshipped on the Ninth Day of Navratri.